tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3592294660202277105.post7865304800156978371..comments2024-02-10T16:20:36.259+08:00Comments on Kerna Kasih Kita: Tentang maid dan babysitter~Jiey^Mienhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05893649604768878545noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3592294660202277105.post-20912111848946176292011-07-22T01:20:09.277+08:002011-07-22T01:20:09.277+08:00Hmmm kita alami masalah lebih kurang sama.. cumany...Hmmm kita alami masalah lebih kurang sama.. cumanya, saya sampai ke sudah tak jumpa babysitter.. terpaksa bergantung dgn nursery. Bila ambil maid pula.. masalah lain pula timbul. Tapi tu laa.. dia tak seperti maid Jiey, masih setia NAK BEKERJA... Kami ni maid yg tak setia. Kami terima dia seadanya, sanggup pendam duka demi Aimy.. tapi sudahnya, dia balik bercuti dan terus tak balik-balik. Tiada nak ucap selamat tinggal ke, halalkan makan minum ke.. semuanya terus lenyap. Tapi Allah tu Maha Mengetahui.. setelah dia pergi, barulah kami tahu belangnya. Memang dia baik, rajin dan kerjanya bagus dan cekap.. Dia sayang Aimy, sangat sayang.. tapi dalam sayang, dia lebih utamakan nak berborak dan mengunjung kawan sampai alpa dan terlupa mengira kebajikan Aimy. <br /><br />Apa pun, hikmahNYA cukup besar.. baguslah dia balik.. insyaAllah ketentuan Allah pada apa yg berlaku dan rezeki Aimy sekarang, insyaAllah yang terbaik buat Aimy.<br /><br />Jadi saya amat bersetuju jawapan jiey kepada Anonymous tersebut. KEBENARAN, KENYATAAN, dan itulah HAKIKATNYA..! <br /><br />So jiey... tawakal saja pada Allah setelah usaha dan doa kita panjatkan.. insyaAllah Allah sentiasa melindungi si istimewa..<br />Yang terbaik pasti miliknya.. aminnnTikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15864566132856607049noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3592294660202277105.post-27803308434509509922011-07-17T07:27:12.323+08:002011-07-17T07:27:12.323+08:00nak buat macam mana kan jiey. kes jiey lebih kuran...nak buat macam mana kan jiey. kes jiey lebih kurang sama ngan kita pasal pengasuh ni. takpe. nanti kita share lain ok.<br /><br />kita pon setuju ngan jiey. yang penting dia dahulukan anak kita.Intan and The Boyshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02175854139857112778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3592294660202277105.post-32549412284619916142011-07-15T01:57:14.685+08:002011-07-15T01:57:14.685+08:00Dear Anon,
Thanks for the reminder and Alhamdulil...Dear Anon,<br /><br />Thanks for the reminder and Alhamdulillah, so far, I've never forgotten on the thinking part..<br /><br />We always knew she has a boyfriend and keep on advising her to go a proper route i.e. get legally divorce from the first marriage in Indon and be legally re-married with the new husband.<br /><br />But she chose to kahwin sindiket with no paper, nothing.. We only came to knw about it a few months after that..<br /><br />And when she knew her period was due, she took lots of jamu and ate lots of inappropriate food because she was worried that if she's pregnant, she cannot work and cannot send money to her teenage children from her previous marriage.<br /><br />Who's not doing the thinking part here? If something happens to her, we would definitely be liable since she's living under our roof.. :-)<br /><br />And yes, when she thought she's pregnant, her work was effected as she claims that she cant carry heavy things, let alone Rayyan Ariff..<br /><br />During that 2 months mens-due-period, I asked her to do 3 times UPT and brought her to a gynea twice.. Just imagine, me being in early stage of pregnancy with all the morning sickness and hubby being sick, need to deal with such situation.. But since we treat her as a family member, a must is a must..<br /><br />It turns out to be pre-menopause syndrome. You can roughly imagine her age if she's having this syndrome right? But who are we to give comment at what age a human need to stop conceive kan?<br /><br />Yes, me and the maid have options. I can opt for another maid and pray that she'll turn out to be as loving as the one. She can also opt for another employer who can give her a descent pay, balik kg paid trip every year, yearly bonus etc like what we gave, but she chose to stay with us.. And we chose to still have her around.. So tolerate la kat situ kan?<br /><br />Cheers!Jiey^Mienhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05893649604768878545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3592294660202277105.post-25167970881213944762011-07-15T01:29:12.888+08:002011-07-15T01:29:12.888+08:00Think think think ! Be in her situation.Married,pr...Think think think ! Be in her situation.Married,pregnant maybe?Surely her perspectives changes, naluri seorang ibu wanting better life for her child.So the demands will surely excalates with pressure from her other half.Taking into considerations her contributions before, why not have a heart to heart,woman to woman talk ?If the demands are too much, then its time to look for other options!Regards!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3592294660202277105.post-76465624793545185572011-07-14T18:11:44.430+08:002011-07-14T18:11:44.430+08:00jiey
ttp beruntung kerana ada seorg bibik yg peny...jiey<br /><br />ttp beruntung kerana ada seorg bibik yg penyayang..<br /><br />lyn masih mencari jugak bibik..x tahu mana hala lagikLynn Abd Latibhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02508127423262378562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3592294660202277105.post-54720576700691581482011-07-14T16:08:24.007+08:002011-07-14T16:08:24.007+08:00betol cakap akka.. demia nak makan hati pon xpe.. ...betol cakap akka.. demia nak makan hati pon xpe.. as long as dia sayangkan rayyan dan sudi jaga rayyan dgn kasih sayang, kita dah syukur sgt2... jgn laa ada kes di mana..kita kuar keje, anak kat rumah di pijak2 bibik.. lagi sakit jiwa di buatnya..<br /><br />*ain pon masih mencari dan keliru tuk dapatkan pengasuh baby dalam perot ni lepas dia lahir..AIN NAZRIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14670496805095265319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3592294660202277105.post-6875058211569490122011-07-14T13:13:52.305+08:002011-07-14T13:13:52.305+08:00bibik... mula2 panggil nama.. tp dia naik 'lem...bibik... mula2 panggil nama.. tp dia naik 'lemak' pas tu panggil bibik pun sama gam.. dah 4 kali tukar bibik..alizahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06766646990752042346noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3592294660202277105.post-10423372112610590292011-07-14T11:55:05.633+08:002011-07-14T11:55:05.633+08:00sapa pun org itu ..yg penting dia dpt menyayanyi r...sapa pun org itu ..yg penting dia dpt menyayanyi rayyan seikhlas hatinya..<br /><br />kty doakan yg terbaik buat jiey & family.aminattyfirhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03954804985049822463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3592294660202277105.post-66918560477279739472011-07-14T10:42:57.206+08:002011-07-14T10:42:57.206+08:00setuju with your decision..yg penting ialah dia sa...setuju with your decision..yg penting ialah dia sayang rayyan..mmg selama sy ikut blog ni saya nampak dari gambar2 atau cerita2 jiey esp. bile rayyan sakit, yg bibik tu sgt sayangkannya..hal2 yg lain tu terpaksa la tolerate kan..(*tapi kalau dpt yg sayang rayyan & x buat hal, lagi OK kan?*)..hakikatnya mmg susah nak cari bibik yg fit all our criterias..Adininahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13919832497800364428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3592294660202277105.post-3559902986484650492011-07-14T09:00:21.645+08:002011-07-14T09:00:21.645+08:00Setiap percaturan ada hikmah disebaliknya.Kita han...Setiap percaturan ada hikmah disebaliknya.Kita hanya merancang namun yang menentukannya adalah Yang Maha Kuasa.Dia lebih mengetahui apa yang terbaik untuk setiap hambanya.Jiey dah melakukan yang terbaik buat rayyan ;)Bicara hati ibu aisyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12819570136899794038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3592294660202277105.post-28399170371643111462011-07-13T20:57:47.659+08:002011-07-13T20:57:47.659+08:00harap bersabar yer jie...Allah lebih mengetahui ap...harap bersabar yer jie...Allah lebih mengetahui ape yang terbaik untuk rayyan....MAMAFAWWAZhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08861853270572243140noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3592294660202277105.post-61505841118994273502011-07-13T20:23:49.816+08:002011-07-13T20:23:49.816+08:00bibik is always will be a bibik. ewah, mcm aku ada...bibik is always will be a bibik. ewah, mcm aku ada bibik. tp aku suka bila ko tak panggil bibik ko dengan nama 'bibik'. kan??Mrs. Simplicityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16343728226579648140noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3592294660202277105.post-31778955902273502312011-07-13T17:41:08.385+08:002011-07-13T17:41:08.385+08:00benda-benda gini yg patut seorang ibu utk "na...benda-benda gini yg patut seorang ibu utk "naik" gaji kan.. its not easy to deal with our emotion kan... nak tinggal salah.. tak tinggal salah... semua pecaturan... hanya doa saja yg mampu dibekalkan (dan roti lebih bila anak mogok takmo mkn nasi)hehehJijihttp://triplecolourlife.comnoreply@blogger.com