Monday, March 23, 2009

Award? Hebatkah anda sebagai ibu?


Award ni dpt from Ibu_Arifa. Layak ke? Takde AFUNDI apa2 pun, tetiba menang, macam mana nih? Lawak gak main award2 nih.. Rasa cam artis plak (kalau saya artis, saya adalah Dina Malaysian Idol kot.. Sbb saya montel dan comel) Hehhehe..

Kita tambah sket yea :

Admit one thing you feel awful about (involving being a mom). Once you have written it down, you are no longer allowed to feel bad. Remember you are a good mom!

There's a lot of things that makes me feel awful about being a mother to Rayyan Ariff. The ultimate is, the day I regret that I didn't terminate the pregnancy and my desicion to give birth to him.

Yes peeps, I've felt that way before. Yes, you can call me whatever you want, but it wont change the fact that I've felt that before. When the Dr. told me that he will not make it and I have to go for c-section, I started to regret it. I kept on repeating, 'Why do I want to proceed with this pregnancy? Now they have to cut open my tummy. It will take me another 1 year to try for another baby and another 9 months before the baby can be with us. Stupid me!"

Sungguh hebat syaitan itu dan sungguh lemah anak adam yang sedang sarat mengandung itu. Luckily, that thought faded as soon as my baby kicked, in me.. I realized, even though after this I have to wait for another 2 years, it doesn’t matter. Because I’ll have a baby who will wait for me, InsyaAllah, in heaven!

However, our little hero fought (and still fighting!) as hard as he could so that he can be with us and bright up our life. Most importantly, he taught us to open our heart and see things beyond our eyes.

List 7 things you love about your kids, you love doing with your kids, or that your kids love about you.

1) I love him when he loves me and wants to be hugged by me, his mama.. And still I love him even there're times that he chose Bibik over me.. :P

2) I love the way he picked his pacifier up and put it in his mouth. He may not succeed in his first attempt, but he will never give up.. Same goes to feeding bottle.

3) I love to see him exploring his toys.. Especially when he's playing on his own

4) I love to see his smiles and his laughs. It's heaven to see him playing and laughing with his father

5) I love it when he talks and babbles in his baby language. I'll be waiting patiently for him to call me Mama. Till then, bububu is enough.

6) I love it when he makes funny faces. Auntie Ajah kato beghak'ya.. Muko naka..

7) Enough said, I love everything about him. From his poo poo to his pee, it really describes the joy of motherhood.

Send this to other moms of the year that deserve a reminder that they too are the best moms that they can be. Remember to send them a note letting them know you have selected them, and also add a link to your post that directs people back to the person who nominated you.

Samwan

Puteri Nuur

Kak Suealeen

Yongnoina

Ibu_Uwais_Ameenah

Mokcik Lyna

Kak Pnut

MommyOfTripletsPlusOne

Leen Die

Alyyani (ko kan pki baby sling cam dalam gamba tuh)

Pn. Nieza

Jue mama Iman

Elyn

AcuAzaDamia

Mama Auni

Mel

Dandelion

May

Nina

Mirah

Elissmie

Yana

Eina

Mama Qaisara

Ibu Az

Wana mommy Izz (ni sorang lagi pki baby sling cam dlm gamba nih..:P)

Mama Rayyan

MelissAziezul

Adwindaa

ummiaqeef

Mrs.H

Miezrina

are-shie

Love.. Life

Kak Linda

Makmie

Ila mama Adlil Faiz

Malas nk link. Korang amik sdr la ek. Susah nak drop comment sorang2. Korang perasan tak? Kan senang kalo ckp, semua ibu yang dlm list kat sblh ni n followers, dapat la.. Hehhehe.. Ita mama Sarra dah dapat kan? =)

Pada saya, semua ibu adalah mother of the year.. Kalau tidak pada dunia, sekurang-kurangnya pada anak-anak kita kan?

~Selagi korang bagi anak korang cukup makan pakai, didik elok-elok and buat yang terbaik, kira ok la kan? Tak gitu? Kalau dah tendang-menendang, buang-membuang tu, lain citer dah la..~

P/s - Patutnya, esok sambung drama "setahun yang lalu", tapi ala-ala cam dah malas.. :P Esokkan ada Ian nyer appointment. Oh Ian, camne la esok. Berkampung la kita kat SJMC, ada 3 appoinments!

10 comments:

e.l.i.s.s.m.i.e said...

tq jie bagi award :D apapun anak kiter, kiter sebagai emak memang bangga melahrikannya kan...Insya Allah,appointments nanti Ian baik2 sajer...

LoVe.. LiFe said...

hye jiey...
thanx for sudi singgah kat umah kami..
how is ian lately?
hopefully ian sihat2 selalu....
its true dat mereka lah permata hati kita....
biar penat mcmmana pun... tetap bahagia ketika melihat wajah2 mereka...
ian is a strong boy....
if u dont mind.. i want to share ur story... this is my emel... lyaliani@yahoo.com

alyyani said...

aaa ko penah regret ko tak abort pregnancy ko yek? aku pun ade benda yg aku sesalkan sepanjang jadi mama ni. nanti aku buat tag ko ni ek. tag ke award ni? tak kisah la kan.

menyesal sampai sekarang, kalau dengar cite org lain rasa jeles yg amat! huhu...

waaa.. tu gambar aku la tu pakai sling tu. ahahaha...

KLMari said...

Hi !!! Was blog hopping and found yours. Rayyan is so adorable. Believe in him, and he will make you proud. He'll do great...:). I'm a mother of a special child too...

Dandelion said...

hehe tq for d award. i didnt think u will put my name. dh mula nk memujuk hati sndiri disitu. tp ada rupanya. yup, i am a mom to a baby that had long gone. i dont need to change his stinky diaper everyday. but i recite my prayers for him always :D

ibuVouge said...

Salam
iv silent reader sahaja selama ni
kagum dgn ketabahan awak

saya pakai sling mcm tu di tesco alor setar. semua org pandang saya weird! tapi saya bangga sekurnag kurangnya saya berusaha menyusu anak saya sepenuhnya

ibu_uwais_ameenah said...

thank you jiey for the award!! hope ian baik2 ajer.. wah... ada appointment - sampai 3, sama la uwais, tp bln depan!

Jiey^Mien said...

elissmie :
Kita kan ibu yang hebat.. :P
Thanks eliss

Love Life :
Selalu je jenguk2 Ilhams.. Comel dan aktif!
Thanks. InsyaAllah..

Alyyani :
Tu la Ly, dulu2 ingt kena tunggu lagi 2 tahun baru leh ada baby kalau yang first meninggal.. Jiwa kacau wooo..

KLmari :
I just feel that all babies are adorable.. =)
InsyaAllah.. Hopefully he'll be just fine.
I'll visit your blog after this k..

Dandelion :
Ina, mana bleh lupa kat Ina. And your really deserve it. You're such a strong mother. Lg pun, I mmg suka your honesty when you reply to my email. You structure your sentence correctly.. And I love it! =)

Ibuvouge :
Nanti saya buat kunjungan balas k.. Comel apa pakai sling tu.. Especially kalau letak kat depan yang cam baby kangaroo.. Cuma dengan Ian tak praktikal coz badab dia tak segagah baby biasa.. =)

ibu_uwais-ameenah :
You know you deserve it! =)
Biar baik sampai bila2 ek.. =)
Itu la, kena pandai simpan cuti n 'curi' mc.. :P

ibu_uwais_ameenah said...

'curi' mc?? itu sudah semestinya dong!!

miezrina said...

tq JIEY